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RECOGNIZE:
Domestic Violence Can Happen To Anyone
Domestic violence is a serious problem that has
been happening for centuries. In the U.S. each year it affects millions of
people, most often women. Did you know that domestic violence can happen to
anyone regardless of employment or educational level, race or ethnic background,
religion, marital status, physical ability, age, or sexual orientation?
BELIEVE: Domestic Violence Is Not Your Fault
If you are being abused by your spouse or partner,
you may feel confused, afraid, angry and/or trapped. All of these emotions are
normal responses to abuse. You may also blame yourself for what is happening.
But no matter what others might say, you are never responsible for your
partner's abusive actions. Batterers choose to be abusive. No one deserves to be
battered.
IDENTIFY: Resources Are Available to Help You
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If you believe you are in immediate danger, CALL 911 or
National
Domestic Violence Hotline Number 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) (TDD Line: 1-800-787-3224) |
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If you are concerned about where your relationship is
heading, or have left an abusive relationship and seek counseling or legal
help, call LOOKING FOR MY SISTER office number at 313-861-3221
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PLAN: For You and Your Children's Safety
Without help, domestic violence often continues
and gets more severe over a period of time. It can sometimes become deadly.
To increase your safety:
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Tell others you
trust such as co-workers, friends, family, and neighbors.
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Memorize emergency
phone numbers such as 911 for local police, crisis hot lines, and your personal
support people.
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Identify escape
routes and places to go to quickly if you need to flee from an unsafe situation.
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Talk with your
children about what they should do if a violent incident occurs or if they are
afraid.
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Prepare and hide
an emergency bag with money, checkbook, extra car keys, medicine, and important
papers such as birth certificate, social security cards, immigration papers and
medical records. Keep them somewhere safe such as with a trusted friend.
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Trust your
instincts. If you think you or your children are in immediate danger, you
probably are. Get to a safe place as soon as you can. |
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